Good
morning!
As many of us make our last minute Christmas
preparations, tying ribbons and bows, I thought this Oscar Wilde quote
a nice reminder about "real riches." While we give gifts and save
gift receipts, let us remember that the best gift we can give doesn't
fit in a box ... and it certainly doesn't need a gift receipt. It isn't
the opening of the presents or the surprises inside that bring true and
lasting joy. It's the moments around the edges, the laughter, the
winks, the touch of one person to another. Both sadly and ironically, it is
often easier to see what really matters -- when it isn't there to see.
Ask a family that has lost someone this past year - and they know for
certain what is missing, and they know for certain what matters, and
they know for certain it isn't under the tree or tucked carefully in a
package wrapped with gold ribbon.
We have to learn to see love, and touch love, and make
it just as visible as any other icon of the season. Perhaps if it was
tangible, if we could see how fragile moments really are,
we would be more careful not to drop them.
This holiday season began a little "bittersweetly" for
me. As many of you know, I Have lost both my father and my brother, and
I found as the holidays approached one loss greatly compounded the
other. Yet, I always feel that when we lose something, we stand to gain
something. Life is balance. In my search to gain, I did something new
this year. Instead of opening doors on an advent calendar each day and
anticipating a piece of chocolate inside, I opened my eyes to a magical
moment each day. It was much more rewarding, and each day brought more
than one moment. Of course, I had to open my eyes and choose to see
them. Otherwise--I would have only seen another pound on the scale from
some chocolates.
Your Turn:
What can you do today, and every day, to make love
visible in your life? Imagine your love carefully contained within a
fragile, heirloom glass ornament; imagine love from others in the same
way. Handle love carefully, give it freely and treat it for what it
is--the greatest gift we will ever have the power to give or receive.
Your affirmation:
Today, I make my love for others visible,
realizing it is the only gift that truly matters.
