"Never forget that the first step in getting help is asking for
it." Brook Noel
Good morning! We are not Super Woman... she had a cape. Most
super-heros even have sidekicks, Batman has Robin, SuperMan can
count on Lois Lane, Luke Skywalker has Yoda and Obi-One. I don't
know why so many women feel the need to be SuperWoman or "do it
all on their own." While it might seem that makes us more
"independent," or "strong," it doesn't make a lot of sense if you
step back a minute and think about it.
How many people in this world operate completely independent,
capable of doing it all themselves? I can't think of a successful
CEO who isn't backed by talented executives. I am unaware of a
politician that isn't helped by aides or campaign managers. School
and churches have boards for guidance. So why do we think that we
can, or should, "do it all?"
Instead of striving to "do it all" or "beating yourself up" when
you can't do it all--switch to a "team spirit" mentality. Find
supportive players to be a part of your team and ask for help when
you need it. Doing everything ourselves doesn't makes us
"stronger," it makes us more lonely and needlessly stressed.
Your Turn: How have you tried to "do it all" in your life?
What were the results? Who can be a part of your support team? Who
can you ask for help?
Your Daily Affirmation: Today I let go of trying to "do it
all" and focus on building a network of support and encouragement.
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