“The mistake we make is when we seek to be loved, instead of loving.” ~ Charlotte Younge

Good morning!

I think one of the hardest lessons to learn in life is complete unconditional love and acceptance of self.  Seeking love from others is easier than seeking love from ourselves, as we are the ones who are hardest on ourselves, magnifying each “flaw.”  But as we have all heard time and time again, we cannot love another person or be loved by another person completely until we first love ourselves.

What is self-love?  Many times, we have a hard time with this concept because we confuse self-love with selfishness.  Self-love doesn’t mean always putting ourselves first or living our way.  Self-love is treating ourselves with the same compassion, forgiveness, and acceptance that we do dear friends and family.  Our friends and family will undoubtedly make mistakes, and we will forgive them.  They will undoubtedly stumble, and we will encourage them.  But, do we do those same things for ourselves?  Do we forgive and encourage ourselves?

Your Turn:  This week, practice treating yourself with the kindness, compassion, and encouragement with which you treat others.

Today’s Affirmation:  I am worth complete and total love, right now, just as I am.

 And as always, don't forget to start your day with a heartfelt: "Something great is going to happen today... I can't wait to see what it is!"

And when ending your day ask yourself: "What is one more thing I can do to make today matter?

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