Good morning! We are not Super Woman... she had a cape. Most super-heros even have sidekicks, Batman has Robin, SuperMan can count on Lois Lane, Luke Skywalker has Yoda and Obi-One. I don't know why so many women feel the need to be SuperWoman or "do it all on their own." While it might seem that makes us more "independent," or "strong," it doesn't make a lot of sense if you step back a minute and think about it.
How many people in this world operate completely independently, capable of doing it all themselves? I can't think of a successful CEO who isn't backed by talented executives. I am unaware of a politician that isn't helped by aides or campaign managers. School and churches have boards for guidance. So why do we think that we can, or should, "do it all?"
Instead of striving to "do it all" or "beating yourself up" when you can't do it all--switch to a "team spirit" mentality. Find supportive players to be a part of your team and ask for help when you need it. Doing everything ourselves doesn't makes us "stronger," it makes us more lonely and needlessly stressed.
Your Turn
How have you tried to "do it all" in your life? What were the results? Who can be a part of your support team? Who can you ask for help?
Your Daily Affirmation:
Today I let go of trying to "do it all" and focus on building a network of support and encouragement.
Super-Sprint Weekend 9/29 and 9/30
16 hours of cleaning sprints
and 2 hours of health sprints
Is your house in disarray? Do you have some organizing projects that need attention? Get ready for our first SUPER-SPRINT weekend! Our free sprint sessions actually make cleaning fun as you sprint around the house in 20 minute increments and then check back in to our chat room to report your progress. Since we will be in Orlando, some wonderful moderators have offered to host a super-sprint to do something fun for those of you that won't be joining us in Orlando. There will be prizes and more! Click here - and sign up for our free SUPER SPRINT REMINDER AND DETAILS to receive instructions by the middle of this week on how to participate and the full schedule. Note: If you have never used a chat room, don't worry - this is painless--I promise! You'll be so glad you joined in!
Ready to take the Challenge?
www.changeyourlifechallenge.com
And as always, don't forget to start your day with a heartfelt "Something great is going to happen today... I can't wait to see what it is!"
And when ending your day ask yourself, "What is one more thing I can do to make today matter?"
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